I read an interesting article in the newspaper recently about robots using artificial intelligence to help seniors adapt to being alone. I’ve written about both of these issues …loneliness and artificial intelligence applications for grief. Both have captured my attention.
According to the article: In the United States, 27% of Americans 60 or older live by themselves. Obviously, loneliness can grow in this situation, especially if a significant number of the lonely are mourning the loss of a spouse or loved one. The article claims that artificial intelligence can help the lonely through robots.
Our Surgeon General has great interest in dealing with loneliness as a major health concern. (You may be interested to search the At Peace archives for my Addressing Loneliness post). In New York state, they have attended to the concern by making ElliQ available. ElliQ is a robot with a small digital screen and a separate device vaguely resembling a human head. EliQ swivels and lights up when it speaks. 900 devices have been handed out in New York and 95% of the users say the robot, “is helpful in reducing loneliness and improving well-being.”
ElliQ can tell jokes and even discuss complicated issues such as religion and the meaning of life. Still, there have been concerns expressed. The data the robot is receiving from the users could be used to negatively affect them. Also, people may become so reliant on the robot that they may not interact with existing or new human friends.
I loved reading about ElliQ’s success. The robot has helped many people. I do wonder, however, if people would miss what could be kind and even loving relationships with other people. Do they think that with ElliQ by their side they will escape the isolation of loneliness?
When we consider the complicated nature of grief and loss, having a companion is vital. So, if ElliQ is the only possibility, I would hope a trial opportunity could transpire. Perhaps someone, an adult child for example, could be available to verify that the connection is operating in a positive way.
I do not see ElliQ “solving” the suffering and pain experienced with the loss of a loved one. Even skilled counselors need help occasionally while working with a grieving person. I have been trained to be a companion to those who grieve. I’ve seen beautiful experiences come from having the bereaved person vent to another person while on the grief journey.
If ElliQ can bring these outcomes …great! But, as an old television show used to say, “Be careful out there.”
In any case, my wish for you is to be At Peace!
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